It’s been almost two years now since I decided I wanted a triple helix piercing, and finally yesterday I decided to just do it. I had been nervous about going in and getting it done because I’d heard only certain ears can fit all three piercings, and I definitely didn’t want just two. So anyway, I decided to get over my fear of being told I couldn’t have it, and just did it. I’m pretty happy with it. Now I’m just hoping to avoid the crazy infections that sometimes come with cartilige piercings. Guess we’ll see how it goes. Anyway, moral of the story is don’t wait on something you want to do just because you’re afraid it might not work out. 🙂
After about five months of planning, I finally hosted my older sister’s bachelorette party this weekend. I wanted to do a Disney princess themed event, without ending up looking like we were throwing a birthday party for a little girl, and I think with the help of my mom and sisters, we pulled it off despite the challenges we faced.
- The bride, Ashley rarely drinks and is a super picky eater
- Only half of the party’s attendees were of legal drinking age
- Mom and the mother-in-law were both attending
- Scheduling difficulties, which I’m sure everyone has
Clearly this was not going to be your typical bachelorette party.
So we got to planning and fixed our budget and tried our best to fit every single element we wanted into the budget. We started coming up with ideas in early June, and the party wasn’t scheduled until late October. The hardest part was keeping everything a secret for that entire time. We were all just so excited.
Anyway, the final party started off on a Saturday afternoon with mani-pedi’s for everyone. Ideally we’d have taken a limo, but that stretched our budget just a little too far, so it was one of the few things to be eliminated. So we got our nails done and then headed to a nearby studio for a pole dance fitness party.
That’s where we surprised Ashley by bringing out all of our Disney princess costumes. Since the bachelorette party was to take place during Halloween weekend, it was appropriate timing, and considering we’d all grown up watching the princess movies a billion times, it seemed a good theme for us. We got dressed and started the pole class, which turned out to be a lot of fun. I’m actually considering going back for more pole classes. Another thing I want to add is that the class was pretty appropriate for all ages, so even the younger girls in the wedding party were completely okay joining in. After the class was over, we had some time to pose for pictures, and then it was off to dinner at a modern, upscale, casual restaurant.
We had a good time at dinner, but unfortunately regulations would not allow us to bring in our own cake. My mom is basically a non-commercial version of “The Cake Boss,” so buying dessert there wasn’t an option and not having anything at all wasn’t an option either. So we got a little creative and decided to break the rules a little more for our already non-cliche bachelorette party.
We got my future brother-in-law, Gilbert, to dress up as Prince Charming and had him bring the cake to one of the outdoor seating areas of the restaurant as we were leaving. The cake was shaped like a Cinderella slipper on a pillow, so that worked out perfectly. We all had cake, and the bride and groom danced, and then we separated again.
As I said earlier, very few of the attendees were legal to go into any of the late-night hangouts, so it was back to my mom’s house for cocktails and a lingerie shower. Ashley opened her gifts, and I mixed drinks for everyone. Then everyone went home except my mom, Ashley, myself, and our two younger sisters.
The next morning, we had breakfast, which Gilbert joined us for. He also brought us a suitcase he had packed for Ashley, because we were going to drive to California and spend a day at Disneyland.
Sunday was a travel day, and then Monday we spent the day roaming the Happiest Place on Earth. It so happened that there was an event at Disneyland that night, so everyone without event tickets would be kicked out of the park by six o’ clock. I’m not sure what the exact reasoning behind that was, but it worked in our favor because the park was virtually empty. The longest we waited in any line was about ten minutes, no kidding. And we were pretty much done by six anyway.
After a day at the park, we wanted an excuse to wear our costumes again, so we put them back on, and went to dinner at the Rainforest Cafe and walked around Downtown Disney. Then, Ashley and an old friend of hers went to one of the nearby bars for a little bit of cliche bachelorette party fun. We did a little shopping on Tuesday morning, and spent the afternoon driving home. Overall, I’m not sure I’d have changed anything about the party. It was fun and original, and it worked great under our unusual circumstances. 🙂
See my earlier post for the Disney Princess Theme Bachelorette Party Invitations at the link below:
What other fun ideas do you guys have for one-of-a-kind bachelorette parties?
I’m sure if you’ve read my earlier posts, you know that my older sister is getting married this January. Being the super-wedding-obsessed person that I am, that was great news for me. I actually love weddings so much, that I decided to become a certified wedding planner this summer through the Bridal Society. Anyway, enough of that little tangent. The other thing that meant for me, as the bridesmaid/maid-of-honor is that I would need to make a speech on the wedding day, and host a bachelorette party. The speech is still in the form of a very, very rough draft, but the bachelorette party has been a work in progress for quite a few months now.
There were a few complications in planning this event, which I will go into detail about in my next post with pictures from the actual party. One thing I was sure of, though, was that I wanted to do a Disney princess theme for the event. Disney was something my sisters and I grew up on, so it just seemed appropriate, but obviously we didn’t want a three-year-old birthday party. We planned on going to a pole dancing class, serving cocktails, and having a lingerie shower. So I decided to make the invitations to fit that theme. Again, if you’re curious about how all of this came together feel free to see my next post.
So the picture above is of the front side of a couple of the finished invitations. I used scrapbooking paper scraps to cut out little lingerie shapes and piece them together, added some wirey-looking thread, embossed some words on the front and stuck it all to a piece of glitter paper. I loved how they came out. And in case you can’t read it, it says, “Ashley has found her Prince Charming.” A little cheesy, but hey, I like cheese. 🙂
Like I said, I drew and cut out each individual shape for the tiny bras and whatnot. To the left are the little shapes I cut out. Obviously, I embellished them a bit with little beads, gems, flowers, and bits of ribbon and tulle. Whatever I had, I made use of. And since I’m a scrapbooker, I had a lot of options. I could see someone who doesn’t have the materials already spending quite a bit of money trying to get all the different elements and colors, but there are perks to all hobbies. I guess this is the one for scrapbookers.
On the inside I printed out some little itinerary pages and other random information and tried to make it look fairly cutesy. Then my grandma made some envelopes for me out of plain brown paper bags (which I thought was brilliant) and I sealed them with a tiny Cinderella show sticker I made with more scrap paper and of course, glue. You can see all that in the next few pictures, along with the addressing technique I used, which gave me no issues surprisingly. I was worried if I addressed the envelopes too differently, they wouldn’t make it to their destination, but that wasn’t the case. So moral of the story is don’t be afraid to get creative with the envelopes too. 🙂
So there you are. I like to think the idea was relatively unique, and I’ve gotta say, the entire party went even better than expected. We had a great time! Like I said, have a look at my next post if your curious about how to turn a kids’ theme into an awesome adult party. 🙂
I decided I would make an attempt at a Duct Tape dress of my own. The stakes were low; after all, it wasn’t like it was for my senior prom or anything. I had no vision in mind, except that I wanted to make it out of neon colors obviously. So I set out to buy what I needed. Three rolls of Duct Tape did the trick. I bought the bigger rolls, but I’m not sure on the exact size. It cost me a total of less than $10, if that helps you determine the size of the Duct Tape rolls. I also went to the dry cleaner across the street from where I worked and asked them for one of the bags they put suits and dresses in on their hangers. Then I got back to my dorm and got started.
So let’s recap what you’ll need:
- 3 large rolls of the Duct Tape of your choice (more or less depending on the size and length of your dress)
- a dry cleaner bag
- Yourself (or the person that is going to be wearing the dress)
- One other person to cut you out of your costume if you’ll be wearing it yourself
Step 1: Make arm holes in your dry cleaner bag and make the neck hole bigger if necessary. Then put the bag on over your head. If possible, don’t wear any loose-fitting clothes, as this will mess with the shape of your dress. I went with a sports bra and spandex as you can see. I didn’t actually take a picture of this step…
Step 2: Start taping around the smallest part of your waist. I found that it was easiest to use 8-12 inch strips of tape and wrap them a little at a time instead of trying to completely circle around your waist in one strip. This step is where the picture sequence starts.
Step 3: Keep working upward from your waist to start forming the boobs. In order to make sure it stays your shape and doesn’t slip away from you, you’ll want to curve the tape from your sides, around the bottom of your boobs and to the middle point.
Step 4: Just keep taping upward until you reach the neckline you want. Don’t worry about having perfect edges or exactly the shape you want. You can always trim later. Just get the overall shape you’re going for. I wanted a sweetheart neckline more or less, so that’s what I went for. Make sure as you go, you’re also taping around the back.
Step 5: Start taping downwards from your starting point to finish off your torso piece. Make sure you aren’t trying to put the pieces on at a perfectly straight angle because you’ll get bulges and the tape won’t connect to itself properly.
Step 6: This is where you’ll need some help. Have a friend or family member cut down the back of your dress right along your spine. You’ve made this form-fitting, so make sure it’s someone you trust not to cut you open as well. 🙂
Step 7: Now you can start making your skirt. I made several attempts at this one before getting it right, so you can tell my work is a little sloppy from my frustration. I’m sure you’ll do better. 🙂 I wasn’t even going to consider re-doing it after I figured it out though. That would have meant a lot more tape, and more time than I wanted to spend on this project. Anyway, a basic circle skirt is what I decided would work best, so I started laying out the tape in that shape.
Step 8: Keep forming your circle skirt. Again, mine was super sloppy and more oval than circular, but with a little cleaning up at the end, it turned out just fine.
Step 9: Stand your torso up on top of the skirt to determine the size of hole you’ll need to leave in the center. I made mine a good 1-2 inches smaller than the torso so that it would sit just above where your torso piece ends. You don’t want it falling off. Also, keep in mind you’ll be taping yourself into your dress, so you’ll be able to adjust as you go.
Step 10: Now there’s a lot of trial and error you’ve gotta go through to figure this thing out.
You can see I’ve got a few pieces sticking up funny, probably because I was working sloppy. I would have someone tape your torso back on so you can really envision everything. Then you can see what needs to be changed.
Step 11: Make sure all of the major problems are fixed.
Step 12: I decided to add yellow to border the skirt and blue along the waistline to give it a more pulled together look.
Step 13: Again, I’m just adding finishing touches. Here I put a few strips of blue along the neckline to give it a more finished look. Then I threw on some yellow rubber rainboots just to accessorize.
Step 14: I still thought it was missing something, so I added a giant bow on the back of the skirt and a smaller one above one boob. I should have thought to make a how-to on the bows, but I didn’t. Maybe I’ll make another post for that, but for now I’m going to recommend Googling it. Sorry for the inconvenience.
Step 15: Tape your dress back up on the day you’re gonna wear it and enjoy!
Here’s the link to my profile, for those of you who have come to know the beauty of Pinterest. Feel free to follow me; I’m all about sharing things that I find inspiring in some way.
The messiness of my room is inexcusable, so sorry you all have to see that. It’s just embarrassing.
What I’m not ashamed to admit is that I’m a huge fan of bargain shopping. However, I’ve got a terrible habit of buying things that just aren’t right, and planning to alter little things to make them perfect. The ideas are good, but we all know sometimes those little plans don’t exactly work out. This time, That wasn’t the case. 🙂
Anyway, I found this hideous dress in the clearance section at Ross awhile back, and decided it would be perfect for an up-cycle I’ve been wanting to do for a long time. As it was, it’s quite frumpy: too short, tight in the wrong places, loose in the wrong places, and just didn’t do a whole lot for my less-than-perfect shape, but now that it’s done, I actually kinda love it.
I was inspired by Pinterest (as usual) when I found this picture of Rachel Bilson, but knew that the odds of my being able to find this skirt were slim to none, and even if I did, I don’t have the same funds as Rachel Bilson probably does, so I set out to make it myself.
(Here is the link to the picture at right: http://www.socialbliss.com/melissawhite/summer-style-GQ2DOMA/melissa-white-pinterest-GU3TCOJX)
All I did was cut the boob part off (which I converted into a bandeau), taper in the sides to fit perfectly over my hips after it’s been pulled down a bit, and add some elastic into the waistband to keep it fitted. Okay… it wasn’t entirely a solo project… Since I’m a novice in the sewing department I drafted my lovely grandma and aunt to help me with the harder parts. Now I have this super pretty, high-waisted, lace maxi skirt. I’m in love with it! For a total of less than $10 and a few hours’ work, I think it turned out pretty well. 🙂